In a poignant reflection shared during a 2012 forum at the Country Music Hall of Fame and Museum, Merle Haggard recounted his final visit with his ex-wife and longtime collaborator, Bonnie Owens, before her passing in 2006. Despite their divorce in 1978, Haggard and Owens maintained a deep bond, rooted in their shared history and mutual respect.
Haggard described visiting Owens at the care facility where she resided during her battle with Alzheimer’s disease. Upon his arrival, she took his arm and led him to her room, where a large photograph of the two of them was displayed above her bed. Pointing to the image, Owens remarked, “He’s my favorite,” not recognizing that the man beside her was the same as in the photograph. This moment, filled with both affection and the sorrow of her memory loss, left a lasting impression on Haggard.
Their relationship was not only personal but also profoundly professional. Owens played a significant role in Haggard’s early career, often assisting in the songwriting process. She was instrumental in the creation of some of his most iconic songs, including “Mama Tried” and “Workin’ Man Blues,” by transcribing his lyrics as he composed them. Their collaboration extended to the heartfelt ballad “Today I Started Loving You Again,” which Haggard wrote for Owens during a brief respite from touring. He initially penned the lyrics on a paper bag, and the song became one of his most enduring works.
Even after their marriage ended, Owens continued to support Haggard’s career, touring with him and contributing to his music. Their enduring friendship and professional partnership remained a testament to their deep connection.